Start the learning process for Kids Chores from birth!
Posted by: Christine Mullins in Kids Chores, Kids Housekeeping, Motivational MusicJennifer asked a great question in the comment section for my post about Sequence and System. Since this comes up for many parents I thought it was worth writing a special post about it…
I’m so glad to hear that Jennifer will be starting her 21-month-old little boy on the Children’s Miracle Music game. I start my children when they are born so that they can learn the SKILLS, HABIT and DESIRE to become self-reliant and responsible right from the start. I have a 21 month old also. Her name is Grace. She and my three year old, Angel, share a room. So, when the morning music starts I put my hand on Angel’s hand and, with Grace watching on from her crib, train her how to do one small thing to learn how to make her bed better. Right now she is learning how to lay her cuddle blanket flat on the floor and then match up the corners as she folds it. She then places it at the bottom of her bed. This is a very simple ‘kids chore’ for her to learn.
When I get over to Grace, she knows, by having watched my example, that she is supposed to be making her bed and she hands me her blanket. I then put my hand on her hand and help her to fold her blanket also. Since they practice this task every day, they are becoming good at making their beds and folding their blankies. They are now part of the kids housekeeping routine. I change Graces diaper during the “Use the Bathroom” music and when the “Act of Kindness” (my term for kids chores) music comes on she knows to run to the dryer and empty the lint screen. 
She then starts handing the dry clothes from the dryer to Angel to hang up. (Angel has been practicing doing the laundry every day for three years and can almost completely do our families laundry by herself. Yes she is only 3!) Grace knows how to do these things because I have put my hand on her hand and done these things WITH her so many times that she now knows to do some of the laundry and bed making on her own.
Every person, no matter what their age, needs to do these eight morning points and four evening points so that they can have the HABIT, SKILLS and DESIRE to get their necessary things done quickly and happily each day. They then have the rest of their day left over so that they can do what’s important like serve others instead of just themselves. Our family relationships have completely changed with the use of Children’s Miracle Music – it can be part of your lifestyle too, and make a huge difference to you as a parent. Your career shifts from being a motivator and family support person – to Trainer and Cheerleader.
Please make a comment or ask questions in the comment section of the blog posts – I would be happy to expand on any of these points. It is great to hear from Children’s Miracle Music families! 
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